A Whirlwind Bangalore Sojourn (27–29 November):
Bangalore in late November has its own personality.
The air is crisp, carrying whiffs of filter coffee and unexpected traffic jams. Into this energetic chaos, Ruby and I landed on the 27th—ready for three days of conversations, connections, and culinary adventures.
Day 1: Evenings of Intellect, Warmth & Conversations
Our first evening set the tone. Over dinner, we met some of the brightest minds the city proudly hides behind its cool demeanour—doctors with gentle confidence, company secretaries with razor-sharp clarity, and wellness experts who made you question your life choices after every bite of dessert.
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The restaurant buzzed with the low hum of conversations, cutlery softly clinking like background music. Ideas flowed across the table with the ease of old friendships. Humour, of course, made its guest appearance every now and then—sometimes subtle, sometimes loud, and sometimes unintentional. By the end of the evening, stomachs and hearts were equally full.
Day 2: Friends, Full Toit & Food That Demands a Second Visit
The next evening took us to Full Toit, a name that itself promises everything from beer to banter. It delivered on both.
Full Toit was its usual lively self—warm lights, the aroma of wood-fired food, waiters weaving through crowded aisles like seasoned dancers, and the occasional burst of laughter from the next table. Our own table was no less. Conversations ranged from the Railways to world affairs to food philosophy. Ruby added her spark, as she always does; Michael added quiet wisdom; and the rest of us happily picked our sides between seriousness and silliness.
By the time dessert arrived, it was clear—we were no longer a dinner group but a circle of familiar friends.
Day 3 Morning: The Rameshwaram Café Adventure
We began our final day with a mission: conquer the legendary crowd at Rameshwaram Cafe.
The moment we arrived, we were greeted by a sea of hungry humans. The aroma of dosas sizzling on giant tawas, fresh chutney being poured into steel cups, and the unmistakable fragrance of filter coffee—all of it mingled with the sound of calling tokens and impatient munching.
Enter Mr Raju—our guardian angel in this gastronomic battlefield. With a warm smile and the air of someone who has mastered crowd management as an art form, he ensured we were comfortable. Somehow, amidst all that chaos, we felt cared for.
The food? Crisp dosas that cracked like thin ice, soft idlis like edible clouds, and vadas that made you forget every diet resolution. Breakfast wasn’t just a meal—it was an emotion.
IRAS Day: A Celebration of Service, Legacy, Spirit & the Power of YES
Post-breakfast, we drove to the IRAS Day celebrations at South Western Railways. The event was beautifully curated—elegant décor, dignitaries from across the railway fraternity, and an atmosphere of respect for the legacy of IRAS officers.
Ruby had been invited to speak and as always, she walked up to the stage with a quiet grace that precedes her fire.
Her talk on “The Power of YES” was the showstopper.
She spoke of how saying YES had shaped her journey—from a young civil servant to a cancer warrior, from a survivor to the founder of Sanjeevani Life Beyond Cancer. With humour, vulnerability, and a pinch of self-mocking honesty, she shared how YES had opened doors she never knew existed:
YES to work others avoided
YES to challenges that seemed impossible
YES to life even when it tested her courage
YES to creating a movement of love and care for cancer patients
Her words resonated deeply. Officers nodded, smiled, and even laughed in unexpected moments—her stories had the rare quality of being both profound and disarmingly funny.
By the time she concluded, the hall was filled with the unmistakable silence that only a deeply touched audience creates. Afterwards, many came forward to share how her message inspired them—some emotionally, some thoughtfully, and some with the wide-eyed enthusiasm of rediscovering something simple yet powerful.
Homeward Thoughts
As our trip wound down, we realised this wasn’t just a quick visit to Bangalore. It was a tapestry woven with heartfelt conversations, new friendships, nostalgic laughter, inspiring moments, and food that nourished more than the stomach.
Each day gave us something different—intellect, camaraderie, joy, warmth, reflection.
And through it all, the spirit of YES followed us like an invisible companion.
Because in the end, life expands for those who say YES—to people, to possibilities, and to experiences that make ordinary days unforgettable.